figuring it out

I have come to realize two Internet 2.0 tendencies that are not serving me...or others, likely...all that well. 1) I respond to email very quickly...too quickly; 2) I am always prone to responding too many times. Others appear to know the correct cyber-social distance, as well as when to stop. I am quick to respond and am troubled when others delay. I always add a last comment, never stopping soon enough. Best recommendations: 1) always respond the next day 2) always limit responses to one, if that many at all New ways start now.